*shity social justicer blogger voice* Making someone feel bad about their gender/sexual orientation/skin colour is HELLA WRONG AND YOU SHOULD BURN IN HELL FOR DOING THAT!!!!11…………. unless the people you’re making feel bad are mayorities. In that case is FRICKING RIGHT KEEP DOING IT YOU DESERVE A MEDAL GOOD HUMAN BEING!!!!1 :D
Not just when they do a good job on a test, or a soccer game, or a school play, or anything subjective.
They’ll learn through other people that those things are to be celebrated uniquely.
Your job is to show them that there are people in the world who will love them no matter what. Show them the same affection when you are angry at them that you would when you’re pleased. You are the only constant in their lives, and to have that taken away is dangerous and produces radical fears and anxieties about performance.